tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89594858432975563992024-02-19T23:24:27.600-08:00SelfesteemdayDaily Tips to Boost your Self Esteem and learn to be more successful in your life. To achieve your greatness and what you are capable of you need to have HIGH self esteem. these tips can help or check out our webpage for more free ebooks and ecourses at www.selfesteemday.comattitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8959485843297556399.post-88050187839682499742014-07-14T22:13:00.002-07:002014-07-14T22:13:44.566-07:00Success Thinking for Your SuccessYou are the only person who has control of your thoughts. Throughout your life people will have impregnated your mind with positive and negative ideas.<br />
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If you are happy in your life you have probably had more positive thoughts shared with you. If you are unhappy, possibly the opposite.<br />
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As a child you had less control of your actions as you may have been forced to comply.<br />
However now as an adult it is time to 'let go' of any old unhelpful ideas and retrain your brain with new positive concepts and strategies that allow you to become your very best in your life.<br />
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Life is a journey and every second of your life is an opportunity to 're-invent' yourself and align your mind, body and soul to your greatest potential. No - one can stop you doing that except yourself. My book and my upcoming movie has over twenty years of personal development tips and Hindsight Insights, where you are urged to examine your life. Here are 33 tips which you can read or watch on this video. Click on the link.<br />
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<li> Everyone has their own journey – Yours is personal for you to discover you</li>
<li>You are born with natural talents – use them not abuse them and you will be happier. </li>
<li>Others recognise your abilities even when you don't. So listen or ask. </li>
<li>Bullying is not okay and it affects you and changes your life</li>
<li>The importance of self esteem as a keystone to your success</li>
<li>Life is a journey. ‘<i>Actions daring adventure or nothing’</i> – Helen Keller</li>
<li>Life is like peeling back your onion skin to discover the best you</li>
<li>Your childhood upbringing affects your thinking – make changes as an adult</li>
<li>Challenges happen in life – they are your learning curves.</li>
<li>The biggest challenges are your best teachers</li>
<li>If you’re unhappy then it is your job to look for a solution</li>
<li>You are guided in your life with messages from ‘others’</li>
<li>Continuously learn and move out your comfort zone to your next goal</li>
<li>Your intuition is your inner compass</li>
<li>The negative voice in your head will make you fail</li>
<li>You have a life purpose – find it and <i>‘Just do it</i>’ – Nike</li>
<li>Follow your dreams and you’ll find happiness</li>
<li>‘Aha’ moments in your life is your lessons to learn</li>
<li>You have to boost your self esteem daily</li>
<li>Be grateful for life and everyday gifts</li>
<li>There is a ‘spiritual’ being, far greater than us</li>
<li>Let your children be themselves</li>
<li>Move from lose/lose to win/win relationships</li>
<li>If you’re feeling not okay keep learning until you do</li>
<li>You are being ‘shoulder-tapped’ to your greatness</li>
<li>You are amazing already but keep growing to become your best</li>
<li>Learn to be a good parent from books and courses</li>
<li>Love your children and support them through their challenges</li>
<li>Learn personal development and teach your children</li>
<li>The first person to love is yourself</li>
<li>It is not selfish to love yourself - you need to before you can become your best, serving yourself, your extended community, at your work and humanity. </li>
<li>You have to love yourself before anyone else can love you properly</li>
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appreciate life through nature, your friends, associates, home and are happy to
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your body of stress which is one of life’s killer diseases, therefore you are
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life work, helping others, creating, leading or engaged in some technical
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attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8959485843297556399.post-6677826859868473692014-07-14T21:03:00.000-07:002014-07-14T21:03:02.283-07:0010 Tips to Handling Rejection<h2>
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<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">The
life of a salesperson is filled with rejection. We typically hear far more
“no’s” than we do “yes’s.” Actually, we probably hear “no” </span></span><span style="font-size: small; font-weight: normal;">every
single day of our selling careers. Moreover, unfortunately, it isn’t just from
prospects we hear “no.” We hear it from our companies, our suppliers, our sales
manager, and almost everyone else we deal with.</span></div>
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Our life is filled with the word “no.” Nevertheless, in order to get to our
“yes’s,” we must hear the “no’s.” How we handle the “no” is one of the keys to
succeeding in sales. It seems that there are some people, who can just slough
off “no’s” without a second thought. But for most of us, a “no” is a personal
rejection. Decide which is you and
change your thoughts to handle ‘no’ easier.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Depending on how you market, dealing with a “no” can be a direct, in-your-face
rejection, or can be an anonymous trashing of our direct mail letter. However, all
of us must, at some point in the selling process, deal with face-to-face
rejection. If you cold call, your rejection is immediate—and if your cold
calling is done on the phone, can appear to be very personal. When you call a
complete stranger and<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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hang up on you or rudely tell you to get lost, the tendency is to take that as
personal rejection. Learn that it is not you they are rejection, instead it is
the product and it could be for many reasons, eg. Not right time of year, no
budget, decision maker away etc.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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The salesperson that has sent out a thousand direct mail letters actually
suffers the same rejection, but is protected by not knowing the recipient did
not even look at it, but instead immediately threw it into the trash. In
actuality, the rejection is the same—the individual is rejecting your offer,
not you. But one salesperson must hear in a loud, clear click his rejection,
while the other never hears the soft drop of the letter into the trash. Worse,
once you get the opportunity to get in front of a prospect, the “no’s” continue
to come. You make your presentation. You get your no. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">It seems we need to find a format that will give us the opportunity
to offset the rejection with success. We need to institute a program that will
allow our brains to regroup and experience the joy and positive reinforcement
of getting the yes’s that offset the “no’s.” Assess yourself and decide what
you want to achieve.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="color: red;">Tip 4</span><span style="font-weight: normal;"> - If we assume we
will fail, we will not give our best effort. Why should we? We already know the
outcome before we even try to tackle the problem. After all, we are just
wasting our time. Secondly, out prospect can read our defeatism in our voice
and body language. Moreover, if we do not believe in what we are saying, how in
the world can we expect a prospect to believe it? Learn to believe in yourself
and what you are selling. Join Toastmaster for more confidence or invest in the
Xfactor Confidence Webinar programme.<a href="http://www.xfactorconfidence.com/" target="_blank"> www.xfactorconfidence.com</a></span></span></div>
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successful, we must be able to take the rejection we experience and deal with
it in a positive manner. We have to find a way to eliminate the residual
negative feelings we have from the rejection that seems to be all around us. Advice
for handling rejection has generally centered on either understanding that each
“no” gets us closer to “yes,” or understanding that, since the prospect does
not know us as an individual, the rejection cannot be personal, but is rather a
rejection of the offer we made.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">Both of
these are true statements. For many of us, neither gives us much relief. Change
your self and your energy. Create yourself some affirmations to overcome your
negative self talk. Eg. I am a positive salesperson with a great product<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">So, if the traditional methods of dealing with rejection do not
seem to work very well, what can we do to rearrange our attitudes? It seems we
need to find a format, that will give us the opportunity to offset the
rejection with success. We need to institute a program that will allow our
brains to regroup and experience the joy and positive reinforcement of getting the
yes’s that offset the “no’s.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">How can we create a method to give our brains the positive yes’s
it needs to readjust
after receiving a chorus of no’s? Better yet,
try to arrange your schedule where you have
two or more positive tasks to perform each day and
split them up so your brain is readjusted several </span></span><span style="font-size: small; font-weight: normal;">times
during the course of the day. The more regularly you can feed your brain
positive experiences, the easier it is to deal with rejection. Rejection
becomes the exception, rather than the norm.</span></div>
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6</span><span style="font-weight: normal;"> - Other salespeople use bribery to
handle their rejection. Bribery comes in all forms and fashions. The salesperson
will assign themselves a certain number of phone calls or presentations or
other tasks that they must perform and then, as a reward, they allow themselves
to do something they desire to do—work on their sales files, go to lunch, work
on marketing materials, or some such. Others reward themselves with new clothes
or some other object. Others will<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">allow
themselves to go home early or take a day off at some point in the future.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">However
- Bribing yourself can become expensive—both in terms of the rewards you give
yourself, whether buying something for yourself or allowing yourself time off.
In addition, it really does not reprogram<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">your brain.
All it really does is encourage you to get through the task as quickly as
possible to get your reward. If the reward discourages quality work during the
task, it really is not a reward for doing the<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">task,
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7 </span><span style="font-weight: normal;">- Other salespeople have found that
detaching themselves from the rejection allows them to ignore their rejection.
These salespeople will use a number of impersonal prospecting methods, such as
direct mail, email blasts, and advertising. By not experiencing the rejection first-hand,
they believe they can be more positive.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Using an impersonal prospecting tool to replace direct prospect contact can
also be dangerous. There certainly is not anything intrinsically wrong with<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">Marketing
via direct mail, advertising, emails, and such—as long as the object is not to
avoid prospect contact.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">Besides
being relatively expensive, these methods of prospecting should be a supplement
to your direct prospect contact, not a substitute. Unfortunately, if your
objective becomes avoiding prospect contact to insulate yourself from direct
prospecting and rejection, the task of sending out direct mail pieces, sending<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">emails,
constructing ads, etc. become the goals in and of themselves. They no longer
become a format for increasing your potential pool of prospects, but rather<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">they
become the reason for your existence—you live to create the perfect direct mail
piece that generates interest and sells your product or service without your<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;">involvement
at all.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="color: red;">Tip 9</span><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: red;"> </span>-
Arranging your schedule to allow daily activities that reinforce your positive
selling activities, including prospecting tends to be the most successful way
to deal with rejection. Certainly, if you happen to be one of the lucky few who
can simply ignore the rejection you receive, I envy you. Nevertheless, for the
vast majority of us in sales, we must find a format that allows us to reformat
our brains after experiencing sustained rejection.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="color: red;">Tip 10</span><span style="font-weight: normal;"> - Allowing our brains to experience success on a regular
basis, particularly after having experienced rejection, seems to be the
attitude adjustment mechanism that works best for the majority of us. Try arranging
your schedule to purposely take advantage of the successes you know you will
experience everyday. Place them in your schedule when you know your attitude
will need their positive influence and you will see a marked difference in the
way you handle rejection. ■</span></span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">Written In conjunction with Paul McCord. More tips on
being positive and confident. Visit <a href="http://www.xfactorconfidence.com/">www.xfactorconfidence.com</a> </span></h2>
attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8959485843297556399.post-81850095951833904632014-07-14T19:40:00.001-07:002014-07-14T19:40:48.735-07:00Seven Tips to Rejuvenate Your LIfe at Work & Home <br />
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yourself and share funny stories and jokes.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US">6<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>The gift of a written note – On paper,
email or across the sky…Thanks, is appreciated.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US">7<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>The gift of friendship – Love is the
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If you increase your business sales you are likely to rejuvenate yourself and your business by lowering your stress and/or increasing your profit. Use any of these phrases and check your results. <br />
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<span style="font-size: 18pt;"><span style="color: red;">Ten Phrases to Make Your Customer
feel Loved<o:p></o:p></span></span></h2>
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<!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->I
apologize for our mistake, let me make it right </div>
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<em>When something
goes wrong, most people just want to be heard and acknowledged. So, listen
apologize, then ask what can you do to make it right</em>.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div>
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you for your business, please come back again </div>
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<em>Repeat customers
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not sure I’ll find out and get back to you<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
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<em>It’s okay if you
don’t know but it’s not okay for the customer to keep searching for it, that’s
your job</em> </div>
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<em>Your Customers
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<em>This reinforces
your relationship role in helping them</em></div>
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did we do?</div>
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<em>Feedback to
improve, your customers have a unique role to view the relationship from their
perspective and appreciate being asked</em>. </div>
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More ideas to improve your life at <a href="http://www.attitudetrainingforyou.com/">www.attitudetrainingforyou.com</a> or <br />
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<span style="color: red;">Seven more tips for rejuvenating yourself.</span> </h2>
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<li><span style="color: red;">Create Change</span> - Decide ONE thing you can change at work to make it more enjoyable </li>
<li><span style="color: red;">Give a compliment</span> - Tell someone at work or home that you enjoy their company or give them a compliment </li>
<li><span style="color: red;">Write a gratitude list</span> - 3 things about work, 3 things about home, 3 things about yourself </li>
<li><span style="color: red;">Sing </span>- In the shower, in the car or if you are brave - in the street </li>
<li><span style="color: red;">Breathe Deeply -</span> Spend some time outside breathing 'fresh' air. </li>
<li><span style="color: red;">Stretch your body</span>. - too much time at the computer or in a car stiffens you. Crunch your shoulders and release is a start. (these ones look ok)</li>
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7. <span style="color: red;">Eat some nourishing food </span><span style="color: red;">you like</span> - That can include one little block of high carob chocolate which is good for making you 'feel good'. <br />
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For more tips and free ebooks on changing your life, check out <a href="http://www.attitudetrainingforyou.com/">www.attitudetrainingforyou.com</a><br />
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attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8959485843297556399.post-1162310346740600862014-07-01T00:56:00.000-07:002014-07-01T12:18:49.121-07:00SEVEN Ideas to Rejuvenate Your Life at Work & Play - Day 11 <span style="color: red;"><strong>Drink more water</strong> -</span> Research shows it rids bodies of toxins and helps our body rehydrate <br />
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You can include liquid from herbal teas in your daily quota. (Boring but great for you)<br />
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2 <strong><span style="color: red;">Dance and be recharge yourself</span></strong> - Research shows dancing revitalises us. (singing too)<br />
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3 <strong><span style="color: red;">Eat more broccoli</span></strong> - It is one of the 'superfoods'. - Try it with garlic margarine or butter (much nicer)<br />
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4 <span style="color: red;"><strong>Try quinoa</strong></span> - It's an old super food revived. It needs to be cooked first but don't burn the pot dry <br />
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5 <strong><span style="color: red;">Have a better sleep</span></strong> - I've moved into my mothers' room in the family home. It's lots of memories <br />
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6 <strong><span style="color: red;">Laugh more</span></strong> - Look for some good fun videos on You Tube. <br />
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7 <span style="color: red;"><strong>Boost your self esteem daily</strong></span>. Follow my daily tips on Facebook <a href="https://www.facebook.com/selfesteemday?ref=hl" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/selfesteemday?ref=hl</a><br />
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FOLLOW MY OTHER BLOGS for more ideas. <a href="http://www.attitudespecialist.blogspot.co.nz/" target="_blank">http://www.attitudespecialist.blogspot.co.nz/</a><br />
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A week before my USA trip I was mediating. I listen to a guided mediation from John Assaraf, who was also in The Secret. <br />
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During my mediation I had a weird dream or thought that I was going to meet Sandra Bullock on the street when I was in USA. Pretty unlikely I thought, I don't even know where she lives and she could be anywhere in the world. I checked online and was guided to You Tube where I saw an address of one of her homes in Los Angeles. I was going there but thought it's highly unlikely I'll meet her walking in Santa Monica, so instead I'll send her my book, to the address in the video. <br />
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Now, a sceptic would say, it won't get there...and may not. However, what if it does?<br />
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On another video, she was leaving a restaurant. When I shared with my mastermind group, they said she had a restaurant in Austin, Texas where I was attending my course, and I saw the same one that was in the video on You Tube.<br />
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I met with my ex-partner in of ten years in August this year and made this comment: <em>'At least I can</em> <em>say I followed my dreams, rather then got let them go 40 years ago</em>.' He was good enough and could have been a professional golfer, but instead took a job he has hated his whole life. <br />
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They say that the best ideas on the earth are in the cemetery. So imagine what the world would have missed if Walt Disney had followed 'everyone's advice after he went bankrupt and failed, and not created Disneyland. The world would have been a sadder place!<br />
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When you get ideas, it's easy to ignore then, but once you understand the stepping stones in life, and<br />
if these lead to your goals then try then. I find it tricky to imagine emotions and both these actions could lead to Sandra playing the lead in my movie. There's a quote that says: <strong><em>Anything is Possible</em></strong>, so without following the ideas, nothing would have happened. <br />
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My outcome...two steps closer to my huge business goal, which I need $75 million to finance a movie, but whether it's business or personal goals, it's following the leads. I will also post a copy of my book to her publicist in USA, and still have a business plan and lots more to do, but every step is one closer. <br />
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It's the same as your goals, the All Blacks goals and everyone's. They don't happen overnight but if you do not start, focus, follow your leads, they will never happen. When that happens, you are stuck in fear and it's time to change. Here's a free ebook: How to Move from Fear to Faith. <br />
<a href="http://www.thesuccessattitude.info/" target="_blank">www.thesuccessattitude.info</a><br />
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When you hear the stories of most of the All Blacks, they've been dreaming about it since they were young boys. <br />
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So - Please don't let your dreams die...the world needs you!<br />
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</span></span></span><i><span style="font-family: Times-Italic; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Times-Italic;">Is a negative thinker</span></i><b><span style="font-family: Times-Bold; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Times-Bold;"><o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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</span></span></span><i><span style="font-family: Times-Italic; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Times-Italic;">Knows their strengths and
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</span></span></span><i><span style="font-family: Times-Italic; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Times-Italic;">Feels admiration for successful
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</span></span></span><i><span style="font-family: Times-Italic; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Times-Italic;">Sets professional and personal
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</span></span></span><i><span style="font-family: Times-Italic; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Times-Italic;">Establishes harmonious
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</span></span></span><i><span style="font-family: Times-Italic; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Times-Italic;">Takes responsibility for their
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</span></span></span><i><span style="font-family: Times-Italic; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Times-Italic;">Expresses their wants and needs<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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</span></span></span><i><span style="font-family: Times-Italic; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Times-Italic;">Knows how to set limits firmly
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</span></span></span><i><span style="font-family: Times-Italic; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Times-Italic;">Expresses him/herself
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</span></span></span><i><span style="font-family: Times-Italic; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Times-Italic;">Is a positive thinker<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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Is unaware of own abilities </div>
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Is jealous and over-critical </div>
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Sets unrealistic goals or no goals at all </div>
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Establishes competitive relationships</div>
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Blames others/tries to makes others feel guilty </div>
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Does not express real feelings, wants and needs </div>
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Cannot set healthy boundaries </div>
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Is afraid of making mistakes </div>
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Copies or imitates others </div>
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Is a negative thinker</div>
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<strong>You feel - UNEMPOWERED and like this...</strong></div>
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Keep the peace/Go with the flow </div>
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Let others make decisions</div>
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No opinions </div>
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Don’t feel good</div>
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Don’t believe in own abilities </div>
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Want to be rescued</div>
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<span style="color: red;"><strong>TO FEEL GOOD AND BE HAPPIER YOU WANT TO LIVE LIKE THIS</strong></span> </div>
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<strong>Ten Vital Ingredients Of High Self-Esteem</strong></div>
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Knows strengths/weaknesses </div>
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Admires successful people </div>
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Sets professional/personal goals </div>
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Establishes win/win relationships </div>
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Takes personal responsibility </div>
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Expresses themselves</div>
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Set limits firmly and with care </div>
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Uses assertive communication </div>
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Has positive attitude </div>
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Develops transformational relationships </div>
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<strong>You will feel EMPOWERED and like this..</strong></div>
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Remember you can only change yourself</div>
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Treat others equals/respect</div>
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Learn/Up skill Yourself</div>
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Goals/Align values/beliefs</div>
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Communicate Assertively</div>
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Confident/Believe in Yourself</div>
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attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8959485843297556399.post-29383250256580000912012-01-16T22:41:00.000-08:002012-01-16T22:42:04.438-08:00A trait of high self esteem.High self esteem is about looking after yourself first. Often hard to do, is about learning this lesson in life.<br /><br />I treated myself today by mediating and immediately had a power nap. Oh well...must have needed it.<br /><br />How did you treat yourself today?attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8959485843297556399.post-52064602995630825082012-01-16T15:19:00.000-08:002012-01-16T15:19:42.024-08:00Attitude Powertip - Turning Failures into Successes<iframe width="459" height="344" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/fEnoYi9UtVI?fs=1" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen=""></iframe>attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8959485843297556399.post-68999752186431217102012-01-16T15:18:00.000-08:002012-01-16T15:18:49.920-08:00Attitude Powertip - Turning Failures into Successes.wmv<iframe width="459" height="344" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/fEnoYi9UtVI?fs=1" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen=""></iframe>attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8959485843297556399.post-28397788484396442282012-01-14T23:53:00.000-08:002012-01-14T23:56:40.474-08:00Achieving goals can be exhausting.Months and months of hard work resulted in my movie script's application for funding - to take it to the next level. My rewards were: champagne, beautiful flowers and blobbing in front of 2 videos...and it took 2 days to recover my energy....PLUS i didn't get on the computer....all treats I deserved.<br /><br />Do you treat when you achieve? You should, you deserve. it.attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8959485843297556399.post-49918540915978598402012-01-12T10:41:00.001-08:002012-01-12T10:41:59.222-08:0012 January Healthy Checks and Feeling GoodTaking care of health is vital when you are working on feeling good.<br /><br />My treat today was wear some of my 'best' clothes because I had to get a health check...<br /><br />What do you do to treat yourself when you've got something 'challenging' to do?attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8959485843297556399.post-87563387660480848272012-01-11T00:29:00.001-08:002012-01-11T00:29:50.774-08:00Dream creation can be hard work.Working on creating your dreams can be hard tiring work...so you have to treat yourself.<br /><br />Today my treat was a choice between chocolate and spirulina. I made a healthy choice and kept to my 2012 goal of losing weight. It made me feel good about myself.<br /><br />What treat do you give yourself and how do you feel about yourself afterwards?attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8959485843297556399.post-65413385490651729292012-01-10T00:57:00.000-08:002012-01-10T00:58:08.445-08:0009 January 2012 Doing your work in YOUR time.Achieving the success you want in life means working differently from other people. It's being committed to yourself.<br /><br />Today my treat has been to enjoy a barbeque outside and chill for a few hours before i got back onto the computer and working on my goals.<br /><br />How did you treat yourself and make yourself feel good as you boosted your self?attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8959485843297556399.post-17145423883775744282012-01-08T23:30:00.000-08:002012-01-08T23:31:47.527-08:0008 January 2012 - Be Healthy & Feel Great!When you lose weight and are fit and healthy, you feel much better about yourself and your self esteem takes a boost. Set yourself some health goals.<br /><br />My treat today was a salad, sprinulina, and the gym, but I hiccup on a chocolate!<br /><br />How did you boost your self esteem today?attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8959485843297556399.post-62799913047117762472012-01-08T00:03:00.001-08:002012-01-08T00:05:16.010-08:0007 January 2012 Letting go Negative, Embrace Positive!My first vist to Unity NZ today and we did just that.<br /><br />I looked after myself with some spritiual connections!!<br /><br />Here's the list of positive we wanted in 2012. Peace. love, compassion, hope, joy, grace, friendship, inspiration, fun, happienss, humour, acceptaance, appreciation, faitfulness, gratitiude, truth, abundance, kindness, serenity, understanding, community, clarity, humilty, forgiveness, wholeness, excitement, passion, enthusiasm, passion, health, generosity, opulance, manifestation, goodness, balance, affirmation, perfect health, integrity, wisdom, authenticiy, respect, faith, courage, trust, stronger faith, equality, equal distribution of god's abundance, enlightened leaders, resolution, consecration, tranformational leadershiop, connectedness, laughter, sensitivity, self-belief, tolerance, honesty, prosperity, communication, consideration, spirit of resfulness, caring, gentelenss, contentent, service, bliss.<br /><br /> IF ANY OF THESE THINGS YOU WANT IN 2012, PLEASE LIKE AND FORWARD TO SPREAD THE GOOF VIBES.<br /><br />Find a way to connect with 'the Universe' God, The Divine or a place in nature and enjoy!attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8959485843297556399.post-59894386875809029532012-01-07T00:37:00.000-08:002012-01-07T00:38:18.896-08:0006 January 2012Caring for yourself means taking time to honour your body.<br /><br />My treat today - Use my Christmas gift and 'do' my nails. Boost your self esteem everyday by looking after yourself.<br /><br />What have you done for yourself?attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8959485843297556399.post-51006056801660636992012-01-07T00:25:00.000-08:002012-01-07T00:26:24.655-08:0005 January 2012 - Do things you Love!Time for oneself is vital and doing the things you love.<br /><br />That proves you really to love yourself and your esteem is 10/10 so you can achieve the success you can create. My treat today - was a family day boating and my first dive off the boat and 2012's first swim.<br /><br />How did you treat yourself?attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8959485843297556399.post-23303406141963687212012-01-04T23:51:00.000-08:002012-01-04T23:52:45.557-08:00Thursday 5th January - Honour Yourself Drink ChampagneHaving high self esteem is having high regard in yourself. It is respecting yourself, treating yourself and honouring yourself.<br /><br />Today my treat for myself was to drink champagne. I had lots to celebrates, lots of starts, finishes and stepping up to greatnesss by making decisions to align to my goals and by moving out of my comfort zone<br /><br />Are you doing things to honour and respect yourself and following your dreams?attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com0