Success Thinking for Your Success

You are the only person who has control of your thoughts. Throughout your life people will have impregnated your mind with positive and negative ideas.

If you are happy in your life you have probably had more positive thoughts shared with you. If you are unhappy, possibly the opposite.

As a child you had less control of your actions as you may have been forced to comply.
However now as an adult it is time to 'let go' of any old unhelpful ideas and retrain your brain with new positive concepts and strategies that allow you to become your very best in your life.

Life is a journey and every second of your life is an opportunity to 're-invent' yourself and align your mind, body and soul to your greatest potential. No - one can stop you doing that except yourself. My book and my upcoming movie has over twenty years of personal development tips and Hindsight Insights, where you are urged to examine your life. Here are 33 tips which you can read or watch on this video. Click on the link.

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1.  Everyone has their own journey – Yours is personal for you to discover you
2. You are born with natural talents – use them not abuse them and you will be happier. 
3. Others recognise your abilities even when you don't. So listen or ask. 
4. Bullying is not okay and it affects you and changes your life
5. The importance of self esteem as a keystone to your success
6. Life is a journey. ‘Actions daring adventure or nothing’ – Helen Keller
7. Life is like peeling back your onion skin to discover the best you
8. Your childhood upbringing affects your thinking – make changes as an adult
9. Challenges happen in life – they are your learning curves.
10. The biggest challenges are your best teachers
11. If you’re unhappy then it is your job to look for a solution
12. You are guided in your life with messages from ‘others’
13. Continuously learn and move out your comfort zone to your next goal
14. Your intuition is your inner compass
15. The negative voice in your head will make you fail
16. You have a life purpose – find it and ‘Just do it’ – Nike
17. Follow your dreams and you’ll find happiness
18. ‘Aha’ moments in your life is your lessons to learn
19. You have to boost your self esteem daily
20. Be grateful for life and everyday gifts
21. There is a ‘spiritual’ being, far greater than us
22. Let your children be themselves
23. Move from lose/lose to win/win relationships
24. If you’re feeling not okay keep learning until you do
25. You are being ‘shoulder-tapped’ to your greatness
26. You are amazing already but keep growing to become your best
27. Learn to be a good parent from books and courses
28. Love your children and support them through their challenges
29. Learn personal development and teach your children
30. The first person to love is yourself
31. It is not selfish to love yourself - you need to before you can become your best, serving yourself, your extended community, at your work and humanity. 
32. You have to love yourself before anyone else can love you properly
33. Remember this quote: If it’s to be, it’s up to me!
    

More tips, my book and coaching on www.thesuccessattitude.info or How to get what you want in your life and achieve success on www.attitudetrainingforyou.com

Idea to Action Goals

We train to our bodies to run a marathon, we need to train our minds to achieve our goals. Meditation is one way we can focus on stilling the chatter in our head.

A week before my USA trip I was mediating. I listen to a guided mediation from John Assaraf, who was also in The Secret.

During my mediation I had a weird dream or thought that I was going to meet Sandra Bullock on the street when I was in USA. Pretty unlikely I thought, I don't even know where she lives and she could be anywhere in the world. I checked online and was guided to You Tube where I saw an address of one of her homes in Los Angeles. I was going there but thought it's highly unlikely I'll meet her walking in Santa Monica, so instead I'll send her my book, to the address in the video.

Now, a sceptic would say, it won't get there...and may not. However, what if it does?

On another video, she was leaving a restaurant. When I shared with my mastermind group, they said she had a restaurant in Austin, Texas where I was attending my course, and I saw the same one that was in the video on You Tube.

Again, a sceptic would say...so what. However, a week earlier, I had not sent her my book or been in her restaurant. Both are creating a momentum towards my goal and if it doesn't happen ....I can say this to myself.

I met with my ex-partner in of ten years in August this year and made this comment: 'At least I can say I followed my dreams, rather then got let them go 40 years ago.' He was good enough and could have been a professional golfer, but instead took a job he has hated his whole life.

They say that the best ideas on the earth are in the cemetery. So imagine what the world would have missed if Walt Disney had followed 'everyone's advice after he went bankrupt and failed, and not created Disneyland. The world would have been a sadder place!

When you get ideas, it's easy to ignore then, but once you understand the stepping stones in life, and
if these lead to your goals then try then. I find it tricky to imagine emotions and both these actions could lead to Sandra playing the lead in my movie. There's a quote that says: Anything is Possible, so without following the ideas, nothing would have happened.

My outcome...two steps closer to my huge business goal, which I need $75 million to finance a movie, but whether it's business or personal goals, it's following the leads. I will also post a copy of my book to her publicist in USA, and still have a business plan and lots more to do, but every step is one closer.

It's the same as your goals, the All Blacks goals and everyone's. They don't happen overnight but if you do not start, focus, follow your leads, they will never happen. When that happens, you are stuck in fear and it's time to change. Here's a free ebook: How to Move from Fear to Faith.
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When you hear the stories of most of the All Blacks, they've been dreaming about it since they were young boys.

So - Please don't let your dreams die...the world needs you!